Resisting or denying it brings frustration and misery. Resisting or denying it brings frustration and misery.īut when we embrace Hierarchy and fulfill our role, we find completeness. We need to understand and accept Hierarchy as a fundamental truth in human society. The Importance Of Understanding Hierarchy Sometimes these initially-indeterminate males call themselves “switches” and consider themselves flexible, but over time they tend to naturally settle on a single role. While most of these Hierarchical roles are determined at birth, sometimes males might move between roles as their natural position manifests itself through life experience. They might be used sexually, but usually they are simply blank slaves owned by Men. OBJECTS – These are humans (nonsexual) reduced to accessories or possessions.Their lives revolve entirely around the service of Men, and can even be owned like property by Men. They serve these Men sexually, domestically, and financially. FAGGOTS – These “males” (exclusively gay or closeted gay) are extremely submissive and act as slaves and servants of Men higher in the Hierarchy.They are often bullied, ridiculed, or cucked. BETAS – These males (straight or gay) are socially or sexually submissive males.SUB-ALPHAS – These are typically straight Men who are not quite as superior or as dominant as Alphas, but they are not submissive.They are the general leaders of our society, the Men that lead large groups of lesser males with their dominant will. ALPHAS – In a more general sense, Alphas (straight or gay) exemplify the best qualities of Men to a superior degree.These are the Men all other humans look to as our real-life superheroes. Blessed with physical superiority, these greatest Alphas are also gifted with extraordinary confidence, intelligence, empathy, compassion, and nobility. APEX ALPHAS – These most powerful Men (straight or gay) are the ones other Alphas defer to and respect as their superiors.
Apex Alphas recognize their superior moral qualities. They act on the lowly in ways that are empathetic. Sexuality, race, and position does not influence them or their use of others. These Alphas transcend all levels of the Hierarchy. GOD ALPHAS – The rarest type of Alpha is the God Alpha.It’s reflected in the principles of sayings like “dog eat dog” or “survival of the fittest.” It’s a social version of natural selection. It is the oldest and most basic framework of human interaction, one that we see mirrored in the animal kingdom as well. Hierarchy is the primary social structure of society. In an ideal world everyone would see that we are no better or worse than any other group.As a sort of primer for this website, I want to outline an all-encompassing vision of Hierarchy and the roles each of us will naturally embody. Personally I an glad I am gay, but it took years to arrive at that self-acceptance. We may have easier access to recreational sex, but that is the reason we were (and still are) more likely to harbor HIV, and are currently the population in which the so-far rare monkeypox infection is spreading most quickly. Like other minorities, we are prone to stresses not shared by the majority (thus our higher rates of alcohol and drug abuse). And as (or IF given the current rise of the right wing) we become more enfranchised that perspective will become less important.īeyond that, we are simply different in the focus of our sexual and affectional preferences. Though not all gay folks have the critical faculties to do that. The only “advantage” to being gay is that it gives one a potential outsider’s perspective from which to observe and criticize the majority culture. Is anybody other than right wingers still stupid enough to believe that? The gay mafia is a real thing.” The sexyĮven asking a question like this implies that one has the option to weigh a “choice” to either be gay or straight. Even if it’s not publicly apparent in today’s very divided society, gay men (and the LGBT community) look out for each other. “My favorite part is wherever you travel, gays exist, and there is an automatic sense of kinship and safety there. Feeling connected in any way to a heritage of amazing, creative, brave, and inspiring men.
Having to come out as an ongoing process is character-building. Getting along better with my spouse than 99% of hetero couples I see, because, to be honest, they don’t seem to like each other very much.
Being free of assumptions of gender roles in relationships. Very unlikely to have unplanned children, which are a major cause of dropping out of school and multigenerational poverty. That in turn gave me a better opportunity to envision a different and, in my opinion, better life. Knowing I was different gave me a growth experience in figuring out who I was. “As a cis gay man in the U.S., the only thing I’m qualified to speak on: 1.